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Christmas, I Hate to See You Go
I never thought I’d say this, but I was a little sorry to see the Christmas tree come down. That single act seems to signify that Christmas is officially over. It’s time to get back to work, move on. But this Christmas was warm and comfortable, and I hate to see it go.
For the last four years or so, my family has opted out of the exchanging of presents. That’s harder than you might think, especially when you have grandkids. We have chosen instead to take a trip, to do something that hopefully creates a memory that might last a lifetime.
We’ve been skiing a few times in New Mexico, and, indeed, still talk about the awesome snow storms, the dog that we thought was a wolf, the frozen water pipes that forced us to change rooms in the middle of the night, and every other unique event. And we’ve loved every memory.
Got Anyone to Forgive? Can you see through the mists?
I watched my former pastor’s daughter at her son’s funeral 24 years ago, and I wondered how she would ever be “normal” again. Her only son, a senior at UT, shot down by a 17-year-old who had bummed a ride from him. A beautiful life ended in a moment of evil. How would she ever smile again? What would she dream about?
Her story is remarkable, and a brief glimpse of it is in December’s issue of Good Housekeeping, page 174. She took a long time to lose her hatred of the young man who killed her son, but she did. She found forgiveness. She was able to forgive him. Not that he asked for it. She just gave it. In her words, she “started seeing him as a human being and not just a murderer.”
What’s All the Fuss About Christmas?
Christmas may be called "Holiday" these days, but it doesn’t change the fact that Christians know what this time of year is really all about. We may stand in lines and buy the latest product for our kids, but we never forget that this season is a special time to remember the birth of a Savior.
While some Christian groups advocate boycotting stores which don’t use the word Christmas, and some simply advocate not shopping at all, you find yourself walking a tightrope sometimes trying to please your family, your church, yourself, your God, and your radical friends. As if you didn’t already have enough stress at Christmas.
But whether you buy or don’t buy, or whether you shop certain stores or shun them, is really not going to change the world. How we share Christ, not just at Christmas, but as a part of our daily routine, is of much greater importance.
As Silly as a Goose
This is the time of year they are flying. We were standing on a tee box last Sunday afternoon, and could hear them honking, high in the sky, their erratic V-formation painted on a blue autumn sky. When you contemplate their magnificence, you wonder why anyone ever came up with the phrase “as silly as a goose.”
For one, the V formation is critical to their migration. Instinctively they fly this way. Like some inner voice lines them up. They cannot know that flying in such a way enables them to fly 71% farther and longer than if they flew solo. Each bird creates an uplift that buoys the birds behind. I wonder how many of us recognize the value of belonging to a church? I wonder how many people have hung on a little longer, flown a little further than they might have, simply because they were buoyed on by the faith, love, and strength of those friends at their church?
A Resemblance to God
“You don’t look like your dad!” I’ve heard that at a family reunion many years ago. I never knew if they were suggesting something.
But I’d hate to hear this: “He doesn’t look like his Father.” Notice the capital “F.” I mean the “heavenly Father.”
Did you know that all of us, regardless of our race, size, age, sex, hair, skills, etc., are “made in the image and likeness of God”? Look at yourself in mirror, and whisper: “I bear a strong resemblance to God!”
You do. You are made in His image. You reflect His glory, just as the moon reflects the glory of the sun. It has no light in itself, but how gorgeous it is when when it is bathed in the light of the sun!
You will live forever, just like God. And you have the power to give life, and to take it away.